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The LIE
By Robert DeGrimston

THE PROCESS
CHURCH OF THE FINAL JUDGEMENT
THE
PROCESS CHURCH OF THE FINAL JUDGEMENT
COMMUNICATION TO ALL
BRETHREN (INFORMATION)
The basis of conflict
is a lie.
And the lie is the
image of divergent interests.
Truth is the awareness
of reality. A lie is unawareness of reality.
The truth which prevents
conflict, is awareness of a fundamental unity. The lie which creates conflict
is unawareness of a fundamental unity. The awareness is blocked by an
apparancy of divergent interests.
And conflict within
expresses itself as conflict without. Strife between the soul and the body and
between the two sides of the mind within one individual, manifests outwardly
as strife between individuals, as strife between groups of individuals, and
finally as strife between masses of individuals. And at the root of every
conflict is the same lie; unawareness of the fundamental unity.
But outwardly every
conflict is different, and therefore has its own particular manifestations of
the lie. The basic lie is the same for all conflicts; the superficial lies,
which stem from it, are different.
Consider any
controversial subject; any subject on which there is strong and agressive
disagreement.
On both sides there
are positive attitudes, ideas, opinions, desires and interests, upon which
there is no disagreement.
For example, let us suppose that
both sides are agreed that peace is a good thing, that relief of suffering is
a good thing, that the halting of pollution is a good thing, that unity is a
good thing, that happiness is a good thing, that contact is a good thing, that
co-operation is a good thing, that love is a good thing, and so on.
No conflict here; no
lies.
But as either side steps
into an area either of defence or attack, as soon as disagreement manifests,
lies begin to appear. They must, otherwise there would be no basis nor
materials for antagonism, for condemnation, for accusation.
'It, he, they, are wrong; I
am right.' This is fundamental to each side of the conflict. And from that
basic precept, every argument, every piece of evidence, which the mind throws
up, is calculated to reinforce it.
There is no
detachment--moments of apparent detachment, and a great deal of protest of
detachment, but no real detachment.
The Game is one of
conflict, and we all live by it, whether we are willing to admit it or not. It
is our life pattern and we conform to it. And for that we need lies.
But lies are not
necessarily deliberate and conscious untruths. They are usually superficially
and always basically, the result of severe ignorance.
For all the time,
whichever side of a particular conflict we are drawn towards, the mind is
sifting and filtering in favour of that side; taking what will help, rejecting
what will hinder. There is no consciousness of this. It is compulsive and
automatic. Consciousness is not required; in fact it would hinder the
operation with scruples if it were allowed to intrude.
The result is lies.
The mind creates them for us; half-truths, distortions, misjudgements,
inversions, biases, prejudices, miscalculations and anomalies.
Each side, in so many
words, calls the other side a liar. 'What he says is wrong, and therefore not
true', is the basic argument in every open conflict.
'What they say is a
lie.' That is the theme song on both sides.
At the cooler end of the
scale it means: 'They have their facts wrong. They are mistaken' At the other
end, when the threats involved have grown to desperate proportions--either
threats felt or threats actually voiced--it means: 'They are deliberately
deceitful. They are insincere.'
The absurdity of this
is so obvious that it seems incredible that we can go on taking part in these
charades. But it's the nature of the Game. We must go on. All our instincts
tell us to go on.
If the powers of the
East and the powers of the West, sat down and really looked at the struggle
between them and in the manner in which it is waged, they could not fail to
see the absurdity of their accusations against one another.
Are we really to
believe that there is scarcely a grain of sincerity in the corridors of power
on either side? Are they all self-seeking charlatans, who lie and cheat and
scheme for their own personal ends?
Even closer to home;
are we to believe either of two major political parties in their accusations
against each other, of lies, treachery, betrayal, double-dealing,
unscrupulousness, power-seeking, greed, and insincerity; or the accusations of
a third against both of them?
And even if we do not,
even if they themselves do not, there is no way out. If we and they believe
their accusations, then the blindness has reached insurmountable proportions,
and if we and they do not believe their accusations, then we are already deep
into the territory of conscious and deliberate lying!!
But again, it is the
Game. And in order to play it, we must be convinced, or at least convince
others, that our opponent is some kind of a liar. Our entire case is founded
on this.
And it is true; but,
mutually true, not unilaterally true as we have to believe.
Take any movement or
party or group or ethic or ideology or religion or philosophy, which has had
any impact, any significance and importance and listen to the cases 'for' and
'against'.
The case 'for' could
be truth. It could be based purely on accurate validation. But assuming the
existence and effect of a case 'against'--whether potential or actual--the
advocate 'for' almost certainly feels the threat of opposition. Therefore he
almost certainly enters the area on the defensive, which is already the
territory lies, sincere lies, unconscious lies, perhaps, but lies, in favour
of his client, negative lies against the opposition, and of course accusations
against the opposition, and of course accusations against the opposition, of
lying; deceit, prejudice, stupidity, misrepresentation, and so on.
The case 'against' is
in the territories of lies from the start; because by its very nature it sets
out to attack. The prosecutor is automatically within the conflict. All his
mental processes assist him in his work, and the result is inevitably, lies;
honest lies, sincere lies, perhaps, but lies. And, naturally, accusations of
lying; deceit , treachery and insincerity, as well as misjudgement,
miscalculation and error.
You only need to
compare the two cases, the case 'for' and the one 'against', to see the extent
of the lying between them.
And the advocate 'for'
can detect all the lies--and a few more--in the case 'against'.
And the prosecutor can
detect all the lies--and a few more--in the case 'for'.
There is virtually no truth
in the situation on either side. Because on both sides there is the drive of
conflict; the drive to attack and defend. This precludes detachment, and makes
lies inevitable; all stemming from the basic lie, which is unawareness of the
fundamental unity between the two opposing sides.
This basic lie canned
be summed up in the attitude: 'My side is right; yours is wrong.' From this
stems all the ancillary lies, the ammunition for the game of struggle.
Everyone is willing to
admit that this attitude is a lie on one side--the other side from his own.
But who is willing to see that it is a lie on both sides?
'I am good; you are
bad.' 'I am right; you are wrong.' This is the expression of the fundamental
lie.
Because we see only
the superficial difference, we assume it is basic. And of course if one side
must be 'right' and the other 'wrong', then we have no choice but to make ours
'right' and theirs 'wrong'!
If later we change our
minds, we may change sides. But the situation remains exactly as it was.
And why is this
attitude a lie; the attitude, 'I am right and you are wrong'?
Because it stems from
unawareness of the fundamental unity between us.
It is impossible, basically,
that one of us is 'right' and the other 'wrong'; because we both stem from the same
basic source point; we are both channelling the same life force. We are two
aspects of one existence. If we are opposites, then we are balancing
opposites, not conflicting opposites.
But who is aware of
this--truly aware of it?
Even when someone admits
that all men are brothers, he qualifies his admission with the assertion that
his brothers on the other side of the fence have gone astray. They may be his
brothers, but they are still wrong, and they are still liars and cheats. How
sad!
This is no awareness
of unity.
And even when someone cries:
'Peace! No more war!' all he means is: 'Stop killing each other. Let's just
shout at each other and accuse each other and insult each other.' he is not
advocating unity, but simply different and less physically drastic weapons.
And possibly he is also waging his different kind of war against a different
kind of enemy.
Conflict remains.
Disagreement flourishes. Antagonism abounds. The lie is still firmly
entrenched.
The lie is the basis
of the Game. And lying is the nature of the Game. We must lie in this way
to fulfill our conflicting roles in a Game whose very nature is conflict, and
therefore requires conflict to keep it going.
The Game needs lies to
promote it. We are the players and must provide the lies. So we must be
subject to the fundamental lie, which is unawareness of the fundamental unity.
And we Processeans are
no exception. We live like every other human being in blindness of the
fundamental unity of all humanity. For us, one way is 'right' and the other is
'wrong'. we are 'right'; they are 'wrong'. We feel it, we see it, and we
express it. But it is still a lie.
What we call 'wrong'
and 'GODless', is no more nor less than the other side of the same coin. It is
as much a part of us as we are of ourselves. It is simply the other side of
the Game. Even the most GODless island rises ultimately from the same seabed
as every Process island.
To us it looks evil,
because we are this side of the Game. To it we look evil, because it is that
side of the Game. But basically we are both parts of the same divided and
conflicted Game.
The Game and the
players of the Game, which is all of us, create the anomalies by which the
Game is played and propagated.
Examine the nature of
sincerity.
What is sincerity?
What is insincerity?
Is someone insincere
because he dare not admit the facts? Then is fear insincerity?
Is someone insincere
because he chooses one path in preference to another, and fights for it with
every weapon he can find? His choice is his own, for whatever reason.
Is someone insincere
because he justifies, to himself and others, what he feels is an inadequate
way of life?
Is someone insincere
because he presents an image of himself to the world, which has little
connection with the way he really sees himself?
Then all of us, on one
count or another, are insincere. All of us are liars.
And which of us does
not believe that his way is 'right' while its diametric opposite is
'wrong'--despite outward protests of tolerance; live and let live?
Even fiction
encourages us in the view that there are those who are primarily if not all
'good', and those who are primarily all 'bad'.
As children, from the
earliest age, we are brought up on this view of humanity. We are fed and
nourished on it. The nature of divisions vary, but there are seldom no
divisions.
Even the
ultra-tolerant are strictly and severely divided against the intolerant. One
thing you cannot be tolerant of is intolerance. Because no human being can be
simply tolerant, he has to stand for tolerance. This gives him an outlet for
his own suppressed intolerance--which is usually what intolerance is--but it
also defeats his purpose.
Prejudice is an
unhappy state. But the unhappiest of all is prejudice against prejudice.
Because it is an anachronism.
Intolerance is misery.
Intolerance of intolerance is lunacy--but just as inescapable.
Each and every one of
us is prejudiced and intolerant. When its us, or someone with whom we agree,
we call it morality or ethics. When its those we intensely disagree, we call
it what it is; prejudice and intolerance.
We have conditioned
ourselves to the belief that some people are 'right' and others 'wrong', and
that the world is divided between them.
And we have taught
ourselves that we must be identified with the 'right' side. (There is no
escape in identifying wit the 'wrong' side, because then that for you becomes
the 'right 'side'!)
When we discover that
such black and white distinctions do really not exist--not in people, only in
the pressures from within--that even within this basically false division of
'right' and 'wrong', people are a compromise, part one and part the other,
then we have to manufacture the distinctions.
Because we must take
part in the battle. We must fight for what is 'right' against what is 'wrong'.
Therefore we must make ourselves primarily if not all 'right', and certain
others--depending on which battlefield we choose--primarily if not all
'wrong'.
And we must remain
unaware that basically we are all same; each playing the separate and
individual role that he must play to make up the Game.
And to escape from it
is not a matter of seeing the other person's point of view. We can do that and
still disagree with everything he stands for.
It's not a matter of
recognising that it might be us who are 'wrong' and they who are 'right'. We
can do that and change sides.
It's not a matter of
seeing that everyone is basically good. We can do that and still be convinced
that some of them have gone or been led astray.
It's not a matter of
further compromises, but of recognising that each of us, together with the
opposites for which we stand, is an essential part of one and the same
pattern.
What I call 'right'
and 'good', and what they call 'right' and 'good'; two diametric and
conflicting opposites; are two halves of one basic whole. In fundamental terms
neither is either 'good' or 'bad', 'right' or 'wrong'. They are both
realities; and two halves of one overall reality.
And each is based on a
monumental lie. And the lie is blindness to the fundamental unity which exists
between it and its other half.
When I condemn them,
it is because I do not see that they and what they stand for are basically the
same as me and what I stand for. When they condemn me, it is because they do
not see that I and what I stand for, are basically the same as them and
what they stand for.
Both of us might know
about it analytically. we might speak of the brotherhood of man and all men
being equal. We might even agree on the facts set down here. But we do not
feel it. Therefore we do not truly know it.
Our feelings tell us
that we are in opposition, not only to, but against one another. And those
feelings are the manifestations, the expression, of the lie.
And as long as that
lie persists, as long as our unawareness of the fundamental unity continues,
those feelings will continue, and the resultant conflict will continue,
expressed or inhibited, it makes no ultimate difference.
And it is the nature
of the Game that the lie should persist.
If I were to say that
because of these facts, it is 'wrong' to feel or express or manifest conflict,
the whole value of knowing these facts would be lost. I would simply add
another dimension to the conflict.
No; I say simply that
conflict is the nature of the Game, and we are all parts of the Game. And
conflict both stems from and propagates lies.
We shall continue to
condemn what it is our part in the game to condemn, as long as we feel it. And
our opposition will continue to condemn what it is their part in the Game to
condemn--us--as long as they feel it.
We belong to the Game
and they belong to the Game. So we are subject to the lie and they are subject
to the lie.
Like gladiators in the
arena, we are forced by the Game--as long as the Game is one of conflict--to
fight against one another. We have no more choice than they have.
But, if this
knowledge, can give us that grain of detachment, that glimmer of light within
the darkness of the lie, then that is its value.
When you feel the
instinct to oppose, to condemn, to express the feeling of being 'right'
against what seems to be 'wrong', in the form of antagonism, then stop for a
moment and look for the lie. Look for the superficial lies which the mind
throws to you as weapons, and also remember the basic lie of divergent
interests.
Do this and you will
experience at least a part of that grain of detachment, that glimmer of light.
But the knowledge
carries no 'should' nor 'must' with it. That would make it useless. It carries
no 'morality' or 'ethic'. That would destroy its worth. It is to be absorbed
by whoever's part in the Game it is to absorb it, and whatever comes from that
absorption, whatever degree of freedom or release or detachment comes from
absorbing this knowledge, is another vital and inevitable aspect of the Game.
He that hath an ear,
let him hear. He that hath not, let him not. Neither is right, neither is
wrong; neither is good, neither is bad; just two sides of one coin.
ROBERT DE GRIMSTON
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Robert DeGrimston was transcribed by Sister Angela as a labor of Love in early
September 2002.
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